Short answer, because I know that's what you came for: yes, it is completely normal for a wedding photographer to ask for a deposit. In 17 years shooting weddings around Los Angeles, I have never once booked a date without one, and neither has any reputable photographer I know. A deposit isn't a red flag. The opposite would be the red flag. If someone offers to hold your June date at a Malibu estate for nothing, with no contract and no money down, I'd be nervous, not relieved.
But I get why the question comes up. You're handing money to someone months before they do the work, and nobody teaches you how any of this is supposed to go. So let me walk you through it the way I would at my studio over coffee.
What a deposit actually does
A deposit — some of us call it a retainer — does one job: it holds your date. That's it. When you pay it, I stop taking inquiries for that day. I turn other couples away. I block it on my calendar and it's yours.
Here's the part most couples don't realize, so I'll say it plainly: your date is not held until the deposit is paid. Not when we have a great call. Not when you say
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